And Emotional Abuse Signs

When a loving relationship develops between two people in a healthy way, can lead to very positive for the same: love, trust, complicity and support. Both give and receive in an environment of mutual respect and consideration.

However, at other times there is a partner for those who do not apply these elements as needed in the relationship, gradually developing a control over another person and using it systematically to decimate their self-esteem and mastery.

It is then possible to speak of emotional abuse, as long as that power is not exercised in a violent way. The question now is, you could be suffering? Just checking if your relationship is given one or more of the following you can determine if you are a victim of this phenomenon.



1. In a timely manner or continuously, your partner could either in public or in private lift your voice, using derogatory language or insults about yourself, and making you feel inferior menospreciándote.

2. That person might try to have you controlled all the time, constantly watching what you do and the people they see. You might even ask you to leave your job, or to report in detail on the activities carried out during the day.

3. He could have created a dynamic between the two for which you always end up seeking their approval when carrying out any activity, even to feel guilty about being with other people, even your family, continually worrying about and what the reaction your partner when you hear what you've been doing.

4. Your mood may be changing, alternating moments of indifference and apparent abruptness with others kindness and love. Do not kid yourself, this is only one way to be at their mercy and thinking that everything could change and go back to being as before.

5. Could even threaten you or forbid you to see individuals. This is extremely dangerous, because that person may turn away from your loved ones and use the insulation as a means to exert control over you, making you more vulnerable.

6. As a result of this, you may feel fear, anxiety or stress, and even sleep disorders or suffer from lack of appetite.



If you had your relationship observed in several of these signs, know that you are in a dangerous area, and you react. Do not think things will change, probably because not only do not but also be worse.

Do not rely on a change that will never come because of these attitudes and the threat could reach beyond physical violence in a given time. Looking for advice on any of the support services from abuse or the Web. It will be your best option, since you still have time.



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